Where You Really See Yourself
It’s not where you are — your circumstances. Those can change suddenly and completely without any input or regard to your preference or desires.
It’s in our actions that our true selves are reflected. More important than what is reflected, though, is what we decide will appear in the first place.
So before taking any action, there is the question: “Who would you like to see?” And more important than asking it, we get to decide the answer.